• ATTENTION!!! why am i entering this post??? because while i was working, my boss and i were chatting away. and don't know why suddenly came to this topic.
• and i think is something that you should ponder about it!!!
• why??? because this will ensure that your child or children will not be anyone mentioned in this entry=) other than that, also want to encourage those that are in the situations mentioned.
• PLEASE NOTE THAT: i'm not going against anyone yeah=) just something that i want to share with you!=D

here i go!

• i sometimes just don't understand why people are so rebellious and so violent and so ''innocent''. especially teens.
• Case Study 1: a gal got pregnant when she's only 17. she came from a divorced family and had a sister who is 15. both of them are not studying currently. financially speaking she's not very stable. as for her 'husband', he got into fights regularly before he actually wanted to take up the responsibilities of raising the child and the gal. surprisingly the guy is only 18.
• Case Study 2: a gal who has a divorced parent. and then her parent got married again. so she has 2 pair of parents now. she's 22 this year and then have 1 brother who is 15 and a brother who is primary 1. and some step sisters and brothers. her bological mum was suffering from cancer. and was always sent in and out of the hospital. so she have to work extra hard to support the family. other than that, she is attached to a guy who is kind of violent. can you imagine your boyfriend beats you whenever he is in bad mood. oh my goodness.
• Case Study 3: a gal who was born into this family that have the mentality that boys are better than gal. she's the first child and her mum gave birth to a boy 2 years later. both her parent dotes on the brother more than her. when she enters into her teens, her parents's relationship got worst. and the father can beat her using a belt or even hand (full strength) when she is not at wrong. and the brother was too afraid to say anything and the mother is not at home.
• from these 3 case studies. what can you conclude??? the family was not those so called caring and full of love one ya??? even it is, i believe the gals will still feel emptiness in their heart.
• depending on the background they are from. what can you expect them to be??? rebellious? naughty? well. these 3 gals i mentioned are people that i knew. they are ok in person but when comes to arguement and stuff like that they are extremely fierce and stubborn. they are those type that will never give in even they are in wrong.
• encouragement for people that are in this type of family: don't be sad that you are in this type of family. well. it's God's plan for you. accept it and be thankful for that. there's a purpose behind that=) endure this difficult period of time and you'll enjoy the fruit after that!!!

i'll continue the second part when i'm free to do it alright=) most probably tomorrow=D sorry for my nonsense if you think it is.

message to vonne: cheers gal!

massage to denise: jiayou!!! o's will soon be over!!!and we can go LTT and enjoy our stay in putri pacific hotel=)

massage to all o's student: please study hard for these 2 weeks and you can play all you want after!!!

alright. i have to go to bed soon!!! [[ eyebags!!!! ]]